Maps versus GPS – DoWoo #53/365

GPS-find-your-business-imageYesterday I was the navigator using the GPS from the airport to our rental house.  Today I chose to do the driving with yesterday’s driver being today’s navigator.   

On the way back to Anaheim this evening I was unable to position myself easily, where I was in relation to where I was departing from and where I was going to.  Many people I know use GPS. Why does it not seem to solidify as well as a map within my brain?

I do not own a GPS and have only used one once prior to this weekend.  I have always used maps. When I review a map, I can see where I am in relation to where I am going.  I pay attention to the streets I am going past and if I get off kilter I review the map I referenced earlier (in my memory) and am able to shift myself getting back on track to my destination.  

mapsMaps give you the entire overview before you leave. GPS are typically set up to inform you of each step as you go.  I’ve been told they can give you the overview – I’ve just never seen anyone use it that way.  

Upon reflection – I liken this to how one chooses to deal with their dreams.  If you have a plan (a map) you now have a clear understanding of where you are in relation to where you are going. Then if you get off track, you reference your final destination within your memory and shift yourself until you are back on track with your destination in front of you.  OR you can just live each day following the immediate instructions being given with a ‘recalculation’ each time you take a wrong turn.  

For me I’m going to stick with map.  I prefer making the recalculations myself.  You? Is your preference:

A) MAP                  or                   B) GPS

LA in Harmony – DoWoo #52/365

Branched out on my own with a different network marketing company earlier this year.  Until now Walter and I had always worked together.  This is a huge shift. Especially because the group of people who I am befriending are not connected to who I am as one part of a couple – they are connecting because of me being me. 

It’s an interesting experience to be alone with a group rather than being a couple in a group.  It is a shift in my person – a shift in who I am and can be.  I am blessed to be here in Los Angles with 8 other partners who are all in a similar space of growth, love and harmony. 

Unlimited possibilities are available to me.  To us. To our team as we grow.  We rock.  Thank you!

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Was the world always round? – DoWoo #51/365

Was given a gift today. It was an amazing gift. So unexpected.  We were given an opportunity to share a few stories this evening. To allow these stories to guide someone. To encourage them to see where they were and what a phenomenally wonderful space they were in. AND most importantly to see that where they were heading was right there in front of them.  Exactly where they want to be. It’s there in front of them. 

Being given the blessing of listening to someone else’s dream is HUGE.  Having any impact on someone else’s dream is HUGER. Is there such a word? Probably not. 

But THAT’s the POINT. It’s about words. It’s about choosing which thoughts go through your mind. It’s about choosing what thoughts come out of your mouth as words.  Its’ about how you express your thoughts and what feelings are shared.  It’s about saying what you mean and…you guessed it…meaning what you say. 

the earthWOW!  I received guidance.  I am now sharing guidance. This person receives guidance. They in turn will share guidance.  This is the law of giving and receiving. We do not keep it to ourselves. We share what we learn in order to solidify what we have learned so someone else may share what they learn.  I love how the world goes around. It’s like a great big ball isn’t it? 

I wonder….if we create our reality…and words and thoughts can alter our reality….before people realized the world was round….was it? 

 

Pillow Fun – DoWoo #50/365

I was going to entitle this DoWoo “Pillow Fight” when I stopped myself. We were NOT fighting. We were having FUN! Hence the revised title and perception of what we did. 

Gregory has been a very understanding little man with all the commitments Walter and I have made these past few months. We ensure we have some time spent together – focusing on quality and not being too hung up on the quantity. 

family-photos-durbanville-cape-town-vanessa-14I set aside a 20 minute window to spend with Greg  – just he and I regrouping at the end of the day.  This is what ended up being our pillow fun time.  It was hilarious with the both of us back and forth and off and on the main bed, ending up in pillow tussles with the dog gurgle growling beside us – she being unsure what was going on and who to protect. 

I had a blast!   Best 20 minutes of my day.  I am grateful for making today count. 

Squirreled with a Smile – DoWoo #49/365

As a parent one of the things I struggle with is when our son gets distracted after we have asked him to do something in a timely manner.  We call this being squirreled.  As in the dogs from the movie “Up” whenever they…well, you’d have to have seen the movie to truly appreciate the visual here. 

365c991We prefer not to have to keep repeating ourselves so the current attempt to help motivate him to stay on track is to reduce his electronic time by 15 minutes. We’re not crazy about this option – and are working out the logistics to an alternate reward program rather than the current penalty program.  But, this program is what we have today. We do our best.  

4998342157_7feeffe7ac_zSo, I had asked Greg to finish doing something so he could get to bed. I waited about 15 minutes figuring I’d given him 3x the required time needed. During that time I heard a lot of singing.  Since he does sing while he does stuff I thought nothing of it. When I called out to ask whether he had finished.  There was silence and then he explained he got distracted….by singing. 

I walked over and asked him if he thought we should remove 15 minutes of electronics for his distraction.  To which he answered. “It’s mostly your choice if you want to do it.”  Then he added “It’s mostly my choice because I did it. Now it’s up to you if you want to.”

And he said the entire thing very matter-of-fact-with his usual I’m-having-fun smile firmly in place.  It’s about 15 minutes later (seriously) and I’m typing this so I don’t forget what he said and he’s still in there singing and talking about cool Halloween ideas – even a joke “Why do people hollow out their pumpkins in October? Because it’s Halloween.” 

After having been on the Master Key webinar this evening – during which the team talked about the Law of Giving and Receiving, I am in awe.  I cannot imagine what amazing gifts I gave out to the Universe to deserve receipt of such an amazing gift such as this child.  However, I can say from my heart, my core –  I feel blessed beyond measure and I am most grateful.

No Speed Bumps on the… – DoWoo #48/365

Was speaking to a colleague of mine earlier this week and was reminded of a conversation I had with one of her team.  I was on assignment, in the capacity of what I called a “plug and play VP”, for 14 months when one of the young ladies in the department looked at me and said “It’s not possible”.  I asked her what wasn’t possible. “You…being in such a positive frame of mind all the time.”  

The response I used then is very similar to an analogy I used this evening when conversing with someone about thriving rather than surviving. 

extra_mile speedBumpI explained: “We all have 2 choices in the morning – we can be happy or sad. When crap happens – because it can and does – it’s all in how you look at it. I consider it to be a small speed bump in the parking lot of life. I may run over a few when I stop to refill the gas tank – but once I’m back on the freeway – there are no speed bumps there!! “

The same way there are no traffic jams on the extra mile,

there are no speed bumps on the highway.

My observation for today: It’s all about choice. 

ALL Things ARE Possible – DoWoo #47/365

giraffe-love-317x630Our son wanted to draw something this evening and asked me what animal I would choose. I suggested a giraffe.  He asked to see what the pattern looked like so he did it correctly. 

I pulled up a Google search on images for giraffes. In perusing them, we came across the most amazing picture – something I could not imagine how it was accomplished. We both had to laugh loudly! 

I immediately sent it onto our coach and mentor Mark Januszewski – he has a “thing” for giraffes (a different story for a different time). His response was perfect:  

“All things are possible.”  

This is a man who truly understands and embraces this concept.  I aspire to have his conviction and depth of belief.

Mahalo my friend! We’ve got your back!  

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Be. Do. Have. ZZ – DoWoo #46/365

Having an interesting day of ups and downs and ins and outs. A constant opportunity to readjust. So when I sat down to reflect on my DoWoo for today – the phrase which came to mind was Zig Ziglars Be Do Have.  You have to be before you can do and do before you can have. 

I did a quick search and found this clip from the 1970s – an amazing look at how things are truly the same – we have always known the principles – we just don’t always embrace them fully into our daily lives.  Enjoy! 

 

Can I say ‘No’? – DoWoo #45/365

yes-noTurns out one of my “personal pivotal needs”, that of “Helping Others”, can be my blessing and my challenge.  I truly feel for others when they struggle. If there is a way for me to help them, I do so.  If there is a way for me to be there for them to lend a hand, I do so. If they ask something of me, and I believe I am able to do it, I do so.   This is a GREAT thing! And yet…not so much. 

My observation today is I have challenges with saying “No”.  Actually it was Walter who reminded me a few weeks ago that I need to LEARN to say “No”. It’s just now catching up and sinking in.  

Yes-No-Switch-for-RD-Blog-by-stuart-milesI am now re-evaluating what I have agreed to do.  I am looking at where I can streamline. I am considering what is important to me and to our future. And THEN I am going to do what I am meant to do, what I wish to do, what will lead us to our destination. I am going to circle back on this matter once I am posed with the next opportunity to say “no”.  So for today, the question of “Can I say ‘No’?” remains open. 

Is new better? DoWoo #44/365

Walter and I are currently on a crazy schedule with our businesses and being Certified Guides within the Master Key course and all the other wonderful things I have said “yes” to recently. I’m blue! What can I say? One of my Personal Pivotal Needs is Helping Others. 

OK…now to my point.  Even with all the additional scheduling going on we know we must include quality time with our son. So this evening we walked away from our phones and our computers to have dinner out (plus no cooking and no clean up!)  On the way there, Walter asked to stop at the pet store to pick up something for Mya.  When he came back to the car, Walter explained he had been delayed because both he and the store clerk had challenges finding the product – the package looked totally different. He showed me the label which said “New Look”. 

Change-to-something-completely-new-for-better-dating.-There_s-nothing-to-lose-and-everything-to-gain.Greg pipes up from the back seatJust because it’s new does not mean it’s better”. Wow! Where did he get that one from?  He calmly explained: When he buys a new pack of Pokemon it does not always contain better cards in the pack – sometimes they are better, sometimes they are similar and sometimes they are less than what he already has.

Ergo ‘new is not necessarily better’. 

While his explanation is totally in line from his perspective, the philosophy he shared has the potential for so much more depth.  I am scheduling time to ponder this one a bit further. 

What do you think? 

Thanksgiving – DoWoo#43/365

canadian-thanksgiving-turkey1It was Thanksgiving here in Canada today. Before we sat down to dinner Walter asked me whether we wanted to eat in the dining room. Our son piped up that this would be wonderful. Originally he was pushing to watch a movie for our holiday dinner. However, he loves it when we eat special dinners in the dining room.

He then asked to light the candle he made in summer camp. Walter explained it was a candle which could easily drip on the dining table.  For the next few minutes our 9 year old opened cupboards (wow he can reach them all) and grabbed all sorts of small bowls trying to get something which he could put the candle in. He needed something big enough to capture any wax drippings which may fly off (yes – he made a very interesting candle). 

It was glorious ambiance. There was still enough light outside for us to see the fall colours in the yard and watch the neighbours cat come up to our window. Jimmy (our resident pet cricket) chirped along with us. Mya, Greg’s dog, was under the table keeping our feet warm.  

We paused to share what each of us were grateful for.  Greg started off the round of thanks with “I am grateful for a loving family”.  Wow! I am grateful to have a son who is grateful for his loving family. What a wonderful circle of gratitude we have woven.  Happy Thanksgiving everyone! 

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Purple Elephant – DoWoo #42/365

Was chatting today about concentrating on the past versus living in the now and in the future. After everything we’ve learned during the Master Key course, I know our reality is based upon our thoughts. What we concentrate on determines where we are and where we are will have a direct correlation to where we are going. 

So…if we concentrate on all the things which got us to where we are today – we will most likely create today to look very similar to what yesterday looked like.  And then tomorrow will look like today. And so on.  And so on.  Is this what we want? 

I decided that a verbal reminder would be a good option to help shift thoughts away from any past reference which is not conducive, or supportive, of a future filled with everything I envision my future to be.  The phrase: “Purple Elephant”.  

I was then reminded of a phenomenal video: A Big Giant Purple Elephant on Steroids! Enjoy! 

The Mask – DoWoo #41/365

We have a family tradition of watching a movie together once per week.  It’s typically on Friday evenings where I make home made pizza and we eat while we watch.  About 5 months ago we cancelled our TV subscription so we now either watch something we can get on-line, purchase reasonably or rent.  

mask.jpegAm finding Greg is at an age where there is not a lot to choose from with the current releases. So, a few months back I started looking for and introducing some of the classics (Jurassic Park, Back to the Furture, ET, The Goonies).  One such movie we found was Jim Carrey’s 1994 The Mask.  We watched it tonight and Greg giggled himself silly.  It was a hit! 

This got me to thinking of a conversation I had with Walter this afternoon.  I was explaining how last night’s networking event went.  I had thoroughly enjoyed myself – and did not hold back. I was my boisterous, outgoing, friendly and caring self.  I allowed my true self to shine brightly without any of the worry I used to have about whether I was either not enough or too much of anything else. 

screen-shot-2012-09-26-at-140737Jim Carrey’s character Stanley Ipkiss was all about bringing out the true person (on comic steroids) within whenever he donned the mask – there was no holding back. Imagine being so confident in yourself to show your feelings on your sleeve (or out of your chest in this case).  

When I sat down this evening to consider what I had observed today I found I had truly enjoyed myself last night because I had shed the mask I used to wear.   I was true and honest with myself and ultimately to those I connected with.  The reality: “being” is like anything – some will like who I am, some may not. Neither really matters as long as I stay true to myself. 

Give More: Get More – DoWoo #40/365

One of the philosophies we embrace early on within the Master Key Experience is:  “Give More: Get More”.  There are a number of twists on how to translate the meaning of this phrase. 

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I went to a networking event this evening. On the way there I chose to plug in and listen to a Success CD. Daren Hardy was interviewing 2 people on networking (!) and what were they talking about….Give more in order to get more! 

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The person who ran the even used to run a non-profit offering assistance to single moms. She told me she gave up the thoughts of concern for what she would need to live on – just allowed and embraced knowing she and her daughter would be taken care of – and she was. Give more and you will get more. 

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On the way home I’m listening to another CD and it’s about social media. An interview with Gary Vaynerchuk and his book “Jab, Jab, Jab, Right Hook” which is all about give, give, give, ask.  Give more to get more! 

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My intent for going to this network marketing event was to connect with someone I could offer my personal assistance to; allowing me to use my creativity and be helpful at the same time – my 2 Personal Pivotal Needs. Give more to get more.  

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I believe The Universe: My Source is telling me Give More: Get More.

I hear you! Thank you! 

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The Positive Police – DoWoo #39/365

mu_gen_char_bio_mike_1240x689_v1Augh!   Have I created a monster?  No seriously  – he is definitely not a monster.  Just a very persistent version of what I will call “The Positive Police”.

Gregory was just over 8 years old when Walter and I embarked on our Master Key Experience last year around this time.  We shared a lot of what we learned with him – helping him to frame the world from a positive perspective. 

34-donts-bankruptcyAs a child, he is quick to catch on and fully embrace new concepts. His ability to rewrite his “blue print” (or “rut” as I one of our newer members referred to it his blog this week) is not as embedded as with us older folks.   So when we decided, as a family, to remove the word “don’t” from our vocabulary, Greg mastered the technique of turning things around with lightening speed. So fast I gave him the autonomy to correct me.  

However, it does not appear (at least for me) to sink in as well when someone else corrects you without allowing you the time to process it for yourself.  So we readjusted and asked Greg to allow us to think of our own corrected way of phrasing things positively. He came up with his own solution to continue to remain involved. 

I’m in the office when I use the word “don’t” during a discussion I’m having with someone on the phone.   I hear a voice from the other end of the hall, Greg calling out to me….

“OR?” 

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Jimmy’s White Noise – DoWoo #38/365

It is 8:08 on the 8th of October and I am writing about Jimmy – our lucky cricket.  If you’ve been following my DoWoos – we introduced James T Cricket for my 23rd post. Unfortunately he joined our family for only a short period of time. However, after we put James T into the garden we were introduced to another cricket.  Greg named him Jimmy to differentiate. 

Jiminy-Cricket-4Jimmy has been with us for a week now and the most interesting difference is he not only chirps all night long – he chirps all day long too (even when the light shines into the room he is in.  He continues to chirp when we say good morning, put food into his jar, add watered q-tips and even when we move the jar to a different room.  AMAZING! 

white_noise_1_by_falln_stock (1)It has become so consistent it is (almost) like white noise.  I’ve caught myself a few times to listen for him to make sure he is OK.  What I found was that he was still chirping but I was not hearing him.  

Have you ever had a cricket outside your window on a hot summer’s night?  Crickets are not quiet!  So…how could this be? 

How much of what we hear every day has become white noise to us?  What information is reaching our cognitive abilities without us even being aware?  This makes me take pause and reassess my environment.   I wonder…what is your Jimmy White Noise? 

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Power to Create – DoWoo #37/365

SnoopyHappyDanceHappy dance of Joy. I am 1/10th of my way to 365 consecutive days of DoWoo-ing.  It’s interesting…everyone once and a while I’ll start to have a thought….‘Wow! I never could have imagined doing this!” Then I immediately stop myself and say “Aha! Now THAT is an opinion!” 

I DID imagine doing this! I decided just over a month ago to change how I allowed my thoughts to relay information as being my reality.  I took everything we learned in the Master Key class, everything I’ve learned by reading Haanel, Og, Deepak, Wayne…(so many others) and embraced, truly embraced, that I have the power within me to create anything I chose to create.

If I imagine it, it is my reality.

Because by just imaging it, it becomes a possibility.

And because it is a possibility, it is a probability.  

And since it is a probability, it is my reality.

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Serafina – DoWoo #36/365

Did not get to spend as much time as usual with my son this evening.  Luckily he was still slightly awake when I went into kiss him goodnight. 

He said “Mommy, Daddy asked me to remind him every day by asking him about Serafina.” Serafina is the name of our daughter, whispered to me during one of my contemplative sits by our source.  She is part our future reality we live and embrace now.  Interesting that Walter thought to ask our 9 year old to remind him daily of our dream.  Greg is VERY good at keeping us on track for whatever we ask of him.  

I asked: “Daddy spelled your sister’s name with a PH and I spelled it with an F. What do you think?” And in the wisdom indicative to children he replied “An F. It’s simpler.” 

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Chocolate or Fruit – DoWoo #35/365

I got to thinking of how blessed our son is, who at the age of 9 has 3 of his grandparents still around.  I had only 1 out of my 4 when I was little and that grandmother was gone when I was 5. My mom had lost her father when she was nine and my father had lost his mother when he was 5.  My husband did not meet his grandparents as his grandfathers died in the war and his grandmothers were back home in the Ukraine which he did not get to while they were alive.  

This evening I came across a picture of my husband, his sister and parents. Walter was maybe 1 or 2 years older than our son. His parents are now 71 years married (say it with me…WOW!) and his father just turned 92! 

I truly feel blessed to be a part of my husband’s family and I am beyond grateful my son has this opportunity to know his grandparents.  I then allow myself to embrace the vision of us being grandparents – being here to help with our grandchildren.  

The question which then comes to mind: When they come to visit, will I give them chocolate or fruit? I may wish to ponder this question for some time. Дуже дякую.   What would you do? 

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Difference of Opinion – DoWoo #34/365

flessNot that I had an opinion…LOL…maybe it was a just a difference of perspective.  Walter was at a regional training for his business today. I figured Greg and I could go walk around a flee market – something we’ve never done before.  He likes “family time” and he likes “garage sales” and doesn’t mind “shopping” as long as there is something, somewhere, in there for him. So I figured we could go to a place I have not been in probably 10 years and walk around on a rainy day.  I had planned to give him $20 to allow him to find something he would like to purchase. 

When we arrived it was not open for another hour  Decided we’d go shoe shopping at Walmart (kids feet continue to expand in length – go figure!).  He decided he would much prefer to spend $20 on Pokemon cards which he had not done in a while. I acquiesced with the agreement that we would not open the Pokemon until we were done at the flee market – just in case he found something he wanted to purchase there as originally intended.

He was a trooper as we walked around the first of four buildings. He found nothing he wanted. In actual fact he did not really look at anything. When I wanted to go to the next building he asked to go home (obviously to open his Pokemon). We agreed on 15 minutes and he immediately set his watch alarm for the allotted time. After giving me the count down at least 4 times over the course of 15 minutes – we left, went home, and he asked to open his purchase. 

Focus-On-Your-DreamsWhat I observed today was a boy who knew exactly what he wanted, figured out a way to get it, went along with the requirement, ignoring all other possible temptations and focused on the final outcome.  

I was just along for the ride. But what a ride I’m on. 

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